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New Jersey Marriage Dissolution Basics: Why It’s Vital to Follow Advice of Your Divorce Lawyer

Time and again, there are people heading towards a New Jersey marriage dissolution case who seem to think retaining the services of a lawyer is something of a pro forma endeavor. They grudgingly hire legal counsel and then spend a great deal of the proceedings, not really taking advice from that professional. The reality is that when you are a party to a New Jersey marriage dissolution case, it is vital to follow the advice of your divorce attorney. There are a number of key reasons why you need to take this approach and benefit from following the advice and guidance of your divorce lawyer:

  • Legal expertise
  • Protection of rights
  • Objective perspective
  • Time and stress management
  • Negotiation skills
  • Financial protection
  • Avoiding mistakes
  • Long-term considerations
  • Customized strategy
  • Efficient resolution
  • Post-divorce support

Understanding of complex divorce laws: The reality is that the laws associated with a New Jersey divorce dissolution are very complicated. An experienced New Jersey divorce attorney provides crucial legal expertise that a layperson understandably lacks.

Knowledge of local court procedures: Understanding divorce statutes is fundamental but so is knowledge of local court procedures. The reality is that there can be differences from one judicial jurisdiction to another in the state of New Jersey.

Protection of Rights

Ensuring fair division of assets: At the heart of virtually every New Jersey divorce case is the division of assets. The only truly sure way that you can be best protected in obtaining a fair and equitable division of assets is to retain qualified, experienced legal counsel and to follow the advise of your divorce lawyer.

Safeguarding child custody interests: Time and again, one of the most contentious aspects of a New Jersey divorce is child custody and parenting time. Oftentimes, issues involving children go off the rails in no small way because a party fails to follow the advice of counsel.

Objective Perspective

Emotional detachment from the situation: Engaging legal counsel and listening to his or her advice allows you the opportunity to avoid unnecessary emotional upheaval during the course of marriage dissolution proceedings.

Ability to make rational decisions: On a related note, engaging legal counsel – and listening to your New Jersey divorce attorney – puts you in a far better position to make rational, reasoned decisions in your case.

Negotiation Skills

Experience in dealing with opposing counsel: When it comes to a New Jersey marriage dissolution case, hiring and following the advice of an attorney enhances the prospect that a favorable negotiated, settled resolution of the case will be accomplished. This oftentimes is the favorable course over having to go through a trial.

Strategies for achieving favorable settlements: A skilled divorce lawyer is able to bring to bear on a case vital effective strategies to achieve a favorable settlement. But this does necessitate that you do follow that attorney’s advice, directives, and counsel.

Financial Protection

Identifying hidden assets: A recurring problem in New Jersey divorce cases is one spouse attempting to hide assets from another. Following the advice of seasoned counsel often proves to be the key that unlocks a process through which hidden assets are identified and then properly dealt with during the course of marriage dissolution proceedings in the Garden State.

Ensuring fair spousal and child support: On an associated note, when it comes to following legal advice to protect your financial interests in a New Jersey Divorce, taking this professional guidance increases the prospects that fair spousal and appropriate child support will be obtained.

Efficient Resolution

Expediting the divorce process when possible: Hiring a lawyer and following that attorney’s advice will lead to a more efficient resolution of a case. In nearly all instances, retaining legal counsel expedites the divorce process (provided you do follow that legal counsel’s advice).

Avoiding unnecessary delays and complications: In addition, engaging and following the advice of legal counsel during a divorce case is an important strategy when it comes to the goal of avoiding unnecessary delays and complications.

Post-Divorce Support

Assistance with enforcing divorce agreements: With sad regularity, divorce orders and agreements are not followed. Retaining and following the advice of counsel represents a crucial course when the need arises to enforce divorce orders and divorce agreements.

Guidance on post-divorce legal matters: Finally, you can enhance your chances of avoiding post-divorce conflicts by following the advice of your attorney following the end of the actual New Jersey marriage dissolution proceedings. If you have questions concerning a New Jersey divorce, call the Law Offices of Peter Van Aulen at 201-845-7400 for a free consultation.

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