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Seven Frequently Asked Questions About New Jersey Child Custody

If you are a parent involved in New Jersey divorce proceedings, you likely have an array of questions about a number is key issues. These likely include questions about New Jersey child custody. Seven of the most common questions on this subject are:

If Parents Cannot Agree, How Does a Court Determine Custody in a Divorce?

If parents are unable to reach a decision between themselves regarding child custody, determining custody, parenting time, and related issues then becomes an issue for the court. A court utilizes what is known as the best interests of a child standard in making custodial decisions in a divorce case.

The best interests of a child standard requires a court to weigh and balance a number of factors when working to determine how custody should be arranged in a specific case. Examples of factors include:

  • Consideration of which parent has been the primary caretaker of a child
  • Overall physical, mental, and emotional health of the parents
  • Residential situation of the parents
  • Age of child or children
  • Whether there is more than one child in the family

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What Is the Difference Between Legal and Residential (Or Physical) Custody?

Both legal and residential (or physical) custody are established in a divorce case. Legal custody is the designation of a parent (or both parents acting jointly) to make decisions on major life issues for a minor child. Major life decisions include such matters as:

  • Healthcare
  • Education
  • Religion

Residential or physical custody is the determination of where a child will live during and after a divorce and how a child will spend time with both parents.

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What Are Possible New Jersey Child Custody Arrangements?

Statutes governing child custody in New Jersey provide for a number of different types of custodial arrangements when a divorce case involves a child or children. These include:

  • Sole residential or physical custody
  • Shared residential or physical custody
  • Custody based on primary and alternate residences

In additional, legal custody can be shared by both parents or one parent can be granted sole legal custody.

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What Is Parenting Time?

Parenting time is the time which a child spends with a noncustodial in a divorce case. Parenting time should be regular and recurring. It is designed to ensure that a meaningful relation exists between a noncustodial parent and a child or children.

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What Is a Parenting Plan?

A parenting plan is a written scheme setting forth certain issues associated with a child or children in a situation in which parents are divorcing. A parenting plan addresses a variety of issues that include child custody, parenting time, and other issues directly bearing upon a child or children in a divorce setting.

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Can Child Custody Be Changed at a Later Time?

A child custody arrangement or child custody order can be altered, amended, or changed at a later juncture in time. Parents can agree to alter an existing custody arrangement. Such an agreement will need to be approved by the court and made a part of a new or amended custody order.

If the parents cannot agree on a change that one parent does desire, a court ultimately will be the decisionmaker. A change will need to be determined to be in the best interests of the child or children.

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Do a Child’s Desires Play Into a Custody Determination?

New Jersey child custody law does permit a minor to make his or her desires known in regard to where he or she will live in some circumstances. A court will take a child’s custody desires into consideration if a child has reached an age and a level of emotional maturity at which a minor has developed reasonable decision making abilities.

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If you are planning on divorcing your spouse, or if you are otherwise heading into a divorce case, call (201) 845-7400.

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